Overhaul breadarr-tui UX: filter/sort, color, help overlay, cross-nav

Library tab gets a cycling filter (all/series/movies/missing/unmonitored)
and sort (title/missing/kind), color-coded kind tags and missing-count
severity, and monitor-toggle without opening detail. Keybinding hints move
out of cramped block titles into a context-aware status bar plus a `?`
help overlay, both driven by one shared keybinding table so they can't
drift apart. Episode status icons and review-queue confidence get the same
severity coloring. Stuck tab gains real selection/focus and can jump
straight to a show's Library detail (needed adding media_item_id to
StalledGrab's query — the one small backend touch in this pass). Adds a
manual refresh-now key.

breadarr-shared/src/dto.rs

@@ -56,6 +56,7 @@ pub struct ReviewQueueEntry {
 #[derive(Debug, Clone, Serialize, Deserialize)]
 pub struct StalledGrab {
     pub release_id: i64,
+    pub media_item_id: i64,
     pub media_title: String,
     pub raw_title: String,
     pub grabbed_at: String,